唇钉和纹身 Piercings and Tattoos?

I never had tattoos, nor do I plan for any. During my “metal head days” (ZJ’s description of my blue, pink, and sometimes purple highlighted or ombré hair), I dreamed I would ink myself some day. I had an elaborate plan to get a full back piece exhibiting an Eastern flair: a dragon as the centerpiece. Thankfully, I never gave any thought to getting Chinese, Japanese, or Hebrew words etched on my skin. The thought of getting the Star of David or any Jewish symbols for that matter, also never crossed my mind.

I recall being taught in Hebrew school that Reform Judaism, with all its progressive teachings and interpretations of the Jewish tradition, still frowns upon getting inked. This is because of the events of the Holocaust, when numbers were tattooed on camp inmates, a reminder survivors carried for the rest of their lives. The fourth grade Hebrew school teacher, the year devoted to World War II Jewish history, added many Jewish cemeteries refuse to bury Jews who voluntarily get their skin etched.

And although I do not have piercings besides double earlobe ones, in college I had two lip piercings and a cartilage ear piercing I had done on a teen tour trip to Israel. I was 16 years old when I had the cartilage done, and I took it out about a year ago.  I never could find the right ring or stud to place there, and ultimately it became a nuisance, getting caught on a comb while getting the usual five dollar haircut in Xi’an. The hairstylist always exclaiming how embarrassed they were for pulling on my earlobe made it that much easier to part ways.

The lip piercings, or snakebites, were done while attending Goucher College, my alma mater. My freshman year, and within two weeks of arriving on campus, I paraded around with two large rings through my bottom lip. Those closest to me had a hard time believing I would do such a thing as I have the lowest threshold for pain. In all honesty, the act of getting pierced itself did not hurt as much as the healing process. I squirmed very little, holding a newly acquired friend’s hand, and if memory serves me well, I squeezed the friend’s hand a little too firmly.

I took the left snakebite out in my second year of college; it was getting irritated from having to remove it for a food service and retail job. My college bookstore job never had a problem with the piercing, thanks to my understanding boss knowing full well Goucher students were an eccentric bunch. It also helped that I did my job 🙂

I eventually took out the right lip piercing when I knew I would be teaching in China. Scaring my students, sadly, did not top my living and working in China bucket list. I also knew from having traveled abroad to China in Summer 2007 while a student at Goucher, facial piercings were not all too common. Thinking ahead about the fact that I would already draw plenty of stares from passersby, I removed the most visual element of my rebellious slash angst teenage phase, ending that chapter, unaware of what (or more like who) awaited me more than 8,000 miles from home.

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12 thoughts on “唇钉和纹身 Piercings and Tattoos?

    • maklu001 says:

      That sounds like an awesome birthday. My cousin pierced my ears the second time around, as a birthday present, but I don’t think the parental units were too keen. I certainly can’t top the fact that your mom fainted. Thanks for stopping by!

  1. Susan Blumberg-Kason says:

    Fabulous photos! That’s so funny you describe Goucher as an eclectic group. When I was there, it was quite preppy. Funny about Israel because Jake also went there at 16 and the kids were all getting piercings. He had an ear pierced but didn’t put in an earring. I feel the same about tattoos, but there was a very quick moment when I was in Hong Kong in college that I thought about getting one. Some other girls were and this was way before it was mainstream.

    • maklu001 says:

      I’ve seen photos of Goucher over the years and in the last five to eight years, Goucher’s eclectic community has doubled. The students participating in athletics still lead the preppy charge. When I called Goucher students eccentric, I intended to really say eclectic. The typical cliques from high school are all well represented in Goucher’s student body, and everyone got along well. I often worked with lacrosse players on projects in my communications classes and they were some of the best group work partners, a far cry from athletes I was forced to work with in high school.

      • Susan Blumberg-Kason says:

        Oh, it was like that when I was there, too. As soon as I got to Goucher, the high school cliques were gone. People were so nice and open to meeting others. The whole Goucher population was only 850 when I was there, so no one really put up with attitude!

      • Susan Blumberg-Kason says:

        Yeah, it was only 850. I thought it was perfect, but there’s really no way to sustain it at that enrollment. I think going coed played a large part in increasing their numbers!

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